When he got out of the army, we purchased a slightly bigger house near our family. The house was on a piece of land and was built in a way that made it easy to dream of adding to the house as our family grew. It didn't take long for our family to grow, but the house remained the same. We still spoke of one day when the house was bigger, but after nine years, we moved again with our three daughters.
We are now in a duplex which is larger than any other place we have called home, but it is still itty bitty. Especially now that we have four children sharing our three bedroom, barely over 1000-square-foot abode. The funny thing is that we are comfortable and happy in our slightly-cramped sace. We have learned to count our great big blessings in our itty bitty home.
- We enjoy lots of family time. When we all have to share the same space, we find ourselves playing games, having conversations, watching movies, and interacting more than if we each could go to our own corner.
- When things are tough, we work out the problems because we can't run away from them. There is nowhere to hide.
- We clean out the closets, cupboards and crannies often. We have no spare space to become hoarders.
- We get outside a lot. When we do feel the need to spread out, we go to the park, play in the yard or go somewhere.
- We can still have friends over. It took me a long time to learn this one. I kept waiting until we got a bigger house to invite friends over. Two years ago, I finally decided I couldn't wait any longer and we hosted New Year's Eve dinner for 15 people. It was tight, but no one cared. We all had a great time.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with a big house, but good things do come in small packages sometimes.